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The passivity in these threads is basically equivalent to the verbal and physical abuse threads. People have accepted their lot and no matter how sick and unhappy it makes them, they made their wedding vows and they have the kids. You are going to one day wake up and realize that you have wasted most of the most precious gift we all have - TIME. You are going to grieve for the time you spent alone and miserable, martyring yourself.

[b]Your marriage is not going to survive in the long run. That is the truth you need to accept. So you need to stop worrying about the promises you made because you are not going to make it "til death". That ship has sailed. The question is when, where and why your marriage will break down[/b]. I'd rather have a 20 year affair in a good marriage and leave when it was discovered than stay for 20 years as a dried out sexless husk in a horrible marriage and then leave when I can't take it anymore.  [/quote]

Your two, consecutive posts are the truest, most real comments I have read on this board in a while.  A very good woman friend of mine said to be that I only stay because I am concerned about the effect it would have on my kids and and whether there will be someone else out there for me.  But I also think often about the wasted time, years I will never get back.  For the right person, I would make a very good partner.[/quote]

I haven't posted before, but I just wanted to tell you that you deserve to be happy.  I'm not going to offer any advice on how to do that since I don't know your situation.  You sound like a very resonable, loving person and I wish you the best. That's all. [/quote]

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