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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here.

"Your marriage will probably improve because you won't be chasing for intimacy anymore and so can appreciate it when it is offered. It will ease pressure in the relationship. Even if your spouse finds out, very few affairs actually end marriages. In fact, it will probably shock her into changing her ways or maybe into opening up the marriage. If not, you go back to the status quo."

This is what happened to me. I stopped chasing H for intimacy. He did find out. He didn't leave me. He forced me to go to counselling, which revealed that [b]I cheated not only because of lack of intimacy but because H did about 10% of the child raising and household management, even though I work longer hours and make more money.[/b] So H stepped up his game for a few months, then our relationship reverted to the status quo. So I found another partner and am having a quiet affair, much more circumspectly this time.  I don't want a divorce.[/quote]

OK, that's fucked up. How much of the child raising and household management have your affair partners done?  It's one thing to get sex outside of a sexless marriage, but this is just being childish.  You need a nanny hon, not a lover.[/quote]

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