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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently discovered DH was having an affair.  The signs were all there and I chose to ignore them.  Of course the OW was a mutual friend also.

Did I contact her!  Hell yes.  She denied everything but then I sent an email, referencing some FB messages, just to let her know I did indeed have proof.   All I said was that i knew what was going on, I had proof, and it was going to end right then and there.  Unless she wanted me to tell her husband, whom I work with.  I also made sure that I called her while DH was on a plane returning from a business trip so he was not immediately available.  Then I blocked our cells from receiving calls or texts from her number.

Yes, DH and I have our share of problems but walking out on a marriage is not something I plan to do without a fight.  The affair was a symptom of a larger problem.  I was not good at giving hm the validation he needed as a man and husband.  I did withhold affection from him.  I did dismiss a lot of what he said.  If he did those things to me, I would probably look elsewhere too.

Regardless if the other woman was married or not, I would absolutely contact them.  Not to start a fight but to let them know just how fucked up what they did was.  If they want to fuck up their own lives, fine, but don't fuck with my family.  As a woman, I could never have an affair with a married man.  I don't consider myself the police on moral values but that's just wrong.  [/quote]

You are awesome.[/quote]

Thank you.  It's certainly not something you can prepare yourself for but I did sit on the information for a couple days and made sure I wasn't in a major fit of anger when I contacted her.

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