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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP and a lot of people responding here should not (or shouldn’t have) get married. You clearly don’t want a life partner, and that’s fine. Just don’t do it.[/quote] They don't meet your definition of marriage. Plenty of people in the hood or in Appalachia have kids with their boyfriends without getting married. Here it is being suggested you can get married but carve out( with full legal disclosure) certain aspects of marriage as defined by state law( like the right to alimony or asset sharing). Consenting adults can decide for themselves if they thing this makes sense for them. If I had a wife that made millions a year and said she would pay all the bills and I can save my own money, hell yes I would sign a prenup. It would be wrong for me to think I have a right to the money she makes. [/quote] Oh come on. This woman is going to be a SAHM taking care o f OP's kids. Shouldn't that count for something? Or are millions the only valuables in this world? Your scenario might work for a childless couple that outsources housekeeping.[/quote] Giving her something is fair, not half, not lifetime alimony or anything close.[/quote]
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