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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Update, I apologized. I said,

Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you by sending extra money or if you felt put upon when I asked you to do me a favor. I know we talked about it earlier, but you still seem to be upset. You mentioned the wine at dinner, but didn't elaborate. I don't know what you would like me to do differently but if you tell me, I can try. I apologize for hurting you.

Here's her reply: 
"It's nothing for you to apologize for. It's not the money and it's not that you asked me to do it. I was happy to do it for you, my friend. It's just that you have so many people around you all the time. It's like you don't need me. You left and ran off to your second home and only told me as you were packing your things."

(Second message a few mins later)"About the wine, idk, like it was just weird. You were gonna get a glass and offered to get me a glass as well which was cool since I wasn't going to spend money on a pricey wine but then when the waiter came you asked for a bottle. I just think that was shady and weird. But it's fine."

So... I don't even know where to go with this. I told her as I was packing because I found out a few hours before I had to leave. She's making it sound like I planned a vacation and didn't tell her. As far as the wine situation, once you're buying more than 1.5 glasses of wine, it's usually just cheaper to get the bottle (and it was!). Ugh, I'm trying to give her grace and to understand my errors but she's not giving me much to go on. [/quote]

OP, I think you've done what you can do. When I'm in a situation like that, I apologize, like you did, and then I let it go. If your friend wants to continue to be upset after you have tried to understand and explain and apologize, you need to not let it bother you. I think you tried and now it's on her. [/quote]

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