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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would she not get a say in who comes over to her home and when?? If she moves in, it's her home too. Of course she deserves a heads up when she will have guests![/quote]

But his children are not guests…they’re his children.[/quote]

Exactly this. As college age - they really could be living at home - where would her "boundaries" shift then? Then she'd have to deal with them everyday coming and going along with their friends.

Summer is but so long - they are in school. So really, she's mad that for three months the kids come to THEIR house? The one they actually grew up in? WTF. And anyone whose gone through it, soon the college age kids move on and then the pool and house sit empty for longer and longer stretches until perhaps grandkids come along. We're not talking about a pack of 35 year olds here.

OP - I would break up. I'm not saying that your gf doesn't deserve some boundaries but by saying you have to invite your own kids before they come or ask? That's where I would draw the line, I'm sorry. It would be a hard pass for me.[/quote]

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