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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make a trade-off - BIL commits to weekend of yard work at your house or does the oil changes and car washes for your cars for the summer and DH helps with the move.[/quote] Or do what most normal human beings would do. Be generous and know that your BIL will reciprocate when the time comes.[/quote] I don't know if you've ever known people like this but they won't reciprocate. They'll play the family card when it's convenient and are totally self-interested when it's not. The whole "what weekend can you come over to help move boxes" versus "would you mind helping us move, we'd really appreciate it" gives it away. [/quote]
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