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Where do you live? And in which century?[/quote]

If PP were from a previous century he’d know having kids in your 40s is incredibly common. How do you think all those women had 12 kids? [/quote]
I wish people would stop throwing this out as if that wasn’t grandma’s 3rd-12th child not her first in her forties. There is a huge difference between already proven fertility in years post 35 within strict monogamy from never-been-pregnant-before post 35 and years of multiple sexual partners.

It’s not only incredibly cavalier to advise young women to wait so late on purpose,[b] it’s also callous to those of us in the devastation of infertility[/b]. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.[/quote]
Oh stop. Stating the facts is not callous of anyone. My aunt suffered from infertility in her late 20s and ultimately had to adopt. Is it callous towards my aunt for us to say that the average 27 year old isn't suffering from infertility? [/quote]
Goodness gracious. “To wait SO LATE ON PURPOSE”. All are you are being willfully obtuse and it is exasperating. You are 1000% a part of the problem, if not only for the fact that you will double down incorrigibly in the face of anyone who dare disagree with your premise. [/quote]
I have no idea what any of this means. No one advises women to wait so late on purpose. We are saying they don't need to be married by 30 if they haven't met the one. [/quote]

THE ONE doesn't exist. And while no one should marry simply because they reach a certain age it's better, especially for those who want to have multiple children, to marry before 30. So if you want  2+ kids don't sleep around in your twenties but date with intention.[/quote]

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