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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Judge not let ye be judged.

Let he among you who is without sin cast the first stone.

And I’m not even Christian.

Seriously all you righteous people preaching honesty need to look in the mirror, you think your sh!t don’t stink? As they say.

Maybe it’s what you did to get your DH, maybe it’s how you made your money, maybe it’s what you ignore to prosper, maybe it’s what you’re doing to get your kid ahead, but I guarantee you’ve done something in your life that others would take issue with.
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What is with all the "don't judge!" posts on this and other threads today? If we adhered to "Judge not lest ye be judged" (and yeah, it's "lest," not "let") there would be no DCUM at all.

And coming here to compare affairs with the other supposed "sins" you list is tone-deaf. Others might take issue with some parent who lies on a form to get a kid into a school or whatever. That's vile cheating that deserves to be punished, sure. But it's not in the same league as screwing someone else's spouse.[/quote]

It’s the “whore” judging. The “dickhead” judging. Etc. Let others live. If that’s what they want to do, so be it. If they’re not breaking any laws, again, so be it. What others do, is on them. Does it hurt you? I doubt it. [/quote]

Wow, you're really stretching to make a point here, and it doesn't work. Of course it doens't "hurt" ME. But yes, I can judge because (1) it's an anonymous site where people come to ask opinions and you don't get to be the opinion police and (2) infidelity DOES hurt the cheated-on spouse and I can be as pi$**d off as I like on behalf of those whose spouses are cheating on them. Your "So be it" attitude is yours, which is fine. Not mine, and not that of others on this thread. [/quote]
You’re not God and neither am so you have no room nor do I to judge. Next…[/quote]

Why are you even on DCUM?[/quote]

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