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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a single 40s man who frequently works at a coffee shop on the border between a university and a residential family neighborhood. I often find myself unable to tell if a woman is an undergrad, a graduate student, or a mom.  Sometimes it's obvious; sometimes it's not.  I've tried to strike up something with a woman only a few times, and only with women I'd seen routinely and had some casual interaction with already because I don't want to be that guy who's on the prowl. Anyway, I do think it's legit to not always be able to tell the woman's age.[/quote]

Not according to the posters here. A man shoud always know and he's a creep if he makes a mistake. There's no room for error.[/quote]

JFC.  Or, you know, he could have enough conversation with the woman to a) sense whether she is interested and b) know roughly how old she is.  Conversational tip:  if a woman is receptive to being asked out, she will *want to talk to you.* You won't have trouble having conversation, and in this conversation, she will drop details about her life, from which you can ascertain her age.  (Also women can be both undergrads, grad students, AND moms at the same time, but that's another issue.)  
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Just so you know, a person cannot be an undergraduate and a graduate student at the same time. Now, yes, someone could be a student and a mom at the same time, but that's definitely not the norm. Moreover, the meaning was clear that "mom" referred to someone older and closer to the man's age, but you would rather continue the ascendant practices of being obtuse in the name of inclusivity and using edge cases to condemn common sense.[/quote]

Common sense that women fall into two categories for OP: “young” and “mom.” Lol. [/quote]

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