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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One thing I’ve personally noticed is that neurodivergent people tend to learn to mask very well when they’re young and especially when they’re in school. As they age, they are simply less interested in masking. Social acceptance is less important to them, and personal comfort is more important. Also, they often just become more comfortable with themselves/more accepting of themselves. I think that is all very good for their mental health! But probably very hard for the spouses who married someone who was behaving very, very differently before. [/quote]

This is such a great point. I think being very busy and tired with kids and work etc also makes people have less energy and interest in masking. Which is fine. But also something a spouse needs to come to terms with -- their spouse is changing (as all do).[/quote]

Which spouse is changing?  Where’s the line in what to come to terms with in a life partner?

Sounds like one spouse cannot adapt and grow into life with kids to raise.

Raising kids is 24/7 even with a nanny and grandparents around. It’s not a Sunday only thing. Don’t have kids if that’s all you can handle. [/quote]

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