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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is why 14 year olds shouldn’t have boyfriends or girlfriends. Just say no, Mom. No dating until 16 or even 18.[/quote]

It’s cute that you think that would actually prevent them from dating. At least this way she is keeping the communication channels open. [/quote]

You actually can. You state the rules. You don’t allow your daughter to go to with a date to a dance. That simple.[/quote]

No you can’t.

[b]How does your child get to school? [/b]
Do you allow them to go for walks/runs/bike rides?
Are they allowed to go into stores alone?
Do they do extracurriculars? [/quote]

What does this have to do with rules about dating? My child either takes the bus or I drive them. Lol.[/quote]

You are an idiot.  Plenty of kids either walk to school or take public transport.  Those would all provide opportunity to a teenager who was so inclined.

So that’s what PP’s question has to do with dating.  That your kid does something different (and you really think they couldn’t use time during or around the bus?) doesn’t mean everyone is in the same position.[/quote]

Kids are not having sex on a bus or while walking to school.[/quote]

It's almost like you were never a teenager. In the park, in a car, in the woods, under the bleachers, in the high school stairwell after extra curriculars, and especially at church youth group "lock ins" were where many of my friends had their firsts.[/quote]

Gross, did you do this? At 14?? I never had sex in high school and I think that’s normal?  Btw, a 14 year old girl having sex in the stairwell is horrific so please don’t normalize that. You would be heartbroken if that happened to your child. [/quote]

No, I didn't, but people I know did, more around 17-18 years old.
Two of my best friends were from very religious Catholic families who went to private all girls schools and they were the first girls to go all the way. Both at church camps.
Thankfully it's slightly less common in high school now.[/quote]

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