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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reaching out to the spouse could get someone killed. Also so often the APs have a lot to lose socially if the affair comes to light. So the BW won’t confront the AP or her DH bc it would make the cheating husband look bad at work if everyone knew, expose him or his firm to a lawsuit, or whatever. So the cheating husband strings along the OW until she thinks it’s her idea to end it so he isn’t materially harmed and the wife says nothing because it’s her $ too.[/quote]

Let’s change your first sentence:

Sleeping with someone else’s spouse could get someone killed.

Christ.  The passion from betrayal causes stable people to do crazy things.  It all would never happen if the cheating didn’t happen in the first place.  End of story.[/quote]

Yep.  Again a poster trying to shame a betrayed partner for not keeping everyone’s secrets.  The toll it takes on a person to let that happen and carry that secret is huge.  It’s gross people are advocating he/she turn a blind eye and just let everyone keep up their harmful, abusive behavior.  The only one suffering in this situation is the victim: the betrayed spouse.[/quote]

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