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[quote=Anonymous]This logic is basically . . .

The bad thing wasn't that I robbed the bank. The bad thing is that you called the cops on me . . .

The bad thing wasn't that I beat you up. The bad thing was that you went to the hospital and let them investigate what happened . . .

The bad thing wasn't that I spent all of our joint funds on gambling. The bad thing is that you didn't keep it quiet so I could keep my reputation intact . . .

If you read OW forums you see that they post about the innocent/unsuspecting BW as much as they post about the MM and their "relationship." It's as much about the triangulation and the competition as it is about the warm fuzzy feelings. And look I get it . . . there's a real biological drive to "mate poach." Alpha males are probably already taken so their established mates need to be ousted in order to secure someone of high standing. It makes sense that the primitive part of your brain would go there. But don't try to dress it up with pretzel logic to turn "doing whatever you want because it feels good" into some kind of moral imperative. Just own that you did it because you could and it felt good and you didn't care about hurting anyone else because you just manipulate others until they stop whining to you about their hurt feelings. And if you get exposed for who you are, then at least have the spine to stand tall and say, yeah, I did that. Don't cry, "The BW snitched on me and that's vengeful and psychotic!" because if those terms apply to her then much, much worse applies to you.[/quote]

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