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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op is way ahead of those married to asd who temper tantrums and is verbally abusive and around the kids.

Today he was eating dinner, in his own world, chewing with his mouth open and eating quickly (a slob). I said, chew with your mouth closed, he storms off to the living room to eat (immature), I say don’t have a temper tantrum just chew with your mouth closed, and he yells Shut up (a jerk).

This is how he is anytime someone talks to him in the house about a request or concern. He wants everyone to never talk, leave him alone and walk on eggshells. He’s been working all day on his work computer too plus did one sports drive. [/quote]

I think the videos where they tell you not to criticize your spouse and let them live their life is the way to go. Just because he doesn't do certain things does not mean he wants to be treated like a child. Save it for the real emergencies and that goes for all spouses. [/quote]

He’s already admitted to not doing such things at work.

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What does work have to do with anything?  You are treating him with contempt. The marriage won't last that way. No one wants to live that way. Sorry he isn't who you want him to be but your method will not lead to where you want it to go. Just focus on yourself and let the little things go. [/quote]

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