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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op is way ahead of those married to asd who temper tantrums and is verbally abusive and around the kids.

Today he was eating dinner, in his own world, chewing with his mouth open and eating quickly (a slob). I said, chew with your mouth closed, he storms off to the living room to eat (immature), I say don’t have a temper tantrum just chew with your mouth closed, and he yells Shut up (a jerk).

This is how he is anytime someone talks to him in the house about a request or concern. He wants everyone to never talk, leave him alone and walk on eggshells. He’s been working all day on his work computer too plus did one sports drive. [/quote]

How do you deal with that?[/quote]

We have kids so I treat him like a kid.

Bad manners get called out.
Temper tantrums get called out. 
Name calling and saying Shut Up get called out.

I’m done propping him up or suffering from his bad habits and carelessness.

Kids are in therapy so they know the difference between good behavior and bad behavior.

He often parentifies the kids since they have surpassed him with better life habits, know their schedule, and aren’t rude too much. Things can backpeddle once in awhile and I cringe when one copied his bad habits and poor behavior. He’s usually like a bump on a log in the house.  Hiding on his phone in the couch, basement or a bathroom. [/quote]

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