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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.  Absolutely.  The guy should always pay or try to pay.   Now, it is up to the lady to take turns paying, go dutch or cook the guy dinner sometimes, but the unspoken default is that the guy will pay.

My DD was taught by me to always go on an inexpensive date first (coffee), always have her own transport and always pay her share.  I did not want any guy to think that she owned them anything because they paid for the date. My DD dated extensively in college and was asked out a lot. She also always paid her share. [/quote]

I wanted to add, having my DD pay her share  (because she had our credit card) actually made her not take these men seriously or the relationship to progress more. She was not sleeping with any of these guys. The time when she started to let her boyfriend pay for her meals and dates was the time when we knew that she was serious about the guy.  She did not give the honor of paying for her dinner to any random guy.  But, she also did not go on multiple dates with the same person. After one date with a person she knew she was not into them. Having paid for her own dinner, she had no obligation to go out with them again, or even let the date linger if she was not feeling it. [/quote]

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