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A cheating parent can not be a good parent.
How can they be? They are liars, and cheaters, and lack respect for their partners. Etc... hiding things [/quote]

Yeah, cheating parents are awful at making dinner, dropping the kids at school, helping with homework, and putting the kids to bed.[/quote]

When my H was cheating he didn’t do any of these. He completely checked out and was absent, because he was obsessed with his fantasy life with OW and was always sneaking off or shutting himself in the bathroom to talk to her. The entire time he cheated he never made dinner because he had to “work late” or he’d get home and immediately run out the door to “walk the dogs” (eg call OW) and the only time he put the kids to bed was so he could rush through the routine then hide in the closet texting.

I’m sure there are some people who can maintain basic parenting while cheating, but most become unhappy with their role as parents because they are obsessed with the dream life they *thibk* they could have with AP. [/quote]

Sigh.  Again we have a poster who insists that her personal experience enables her to say what “most” people do.  It doesn’t. [/quote]

Nearly ALL cheaters scapegoat their spouses so they can feel better about their lying/betrayal.  They become very critical in every which way of their spouse and start openly criticizing and finding fault so that the spouse is walking on eggshells and jumping through hoops to try to please...and they have anger that will go off on something that isn't a big deal.  It's very much a psychology to make the spouse the reason for their cheating and to justify their actions.  Cheaters don't even see themselves doing this.

All these cheaters that think they are wonderful parents/spouses are being d*cks over time at home.  Also, it's been shown that many women can sense (even if they have no reason to think spouse is cheating) betrayal.  They guy smells different to them/turns them off. It's a biological response of protection.  [/quote]

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