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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be patient. Don’t expect the fairytale. It seems the guy with no game or who doesn’t know how to wine and dine and charm girls…. are out of practice or are desperate for a first love. (The best charmers are the best playas). My friends still looking complain when a guy doesn’t make the first move, is too shy, etc. My DH had lower self-esteem In dating. He had high confidence in his money management, investing, and academic skills though. I liked He actually admitted that he was so done with dating and being rejected that when we met our 1st year of grad school that I was “good enough”( and just him saying that shows that he had no idea of what NOT to say to a girl He was interested in.) Now He tells our 16yo “it’s not worth it; when you find the right girl, don’t keep looking; just settle down and spend that dating energy On building your relationship and wealth”. He grew into the kindest, most handsome, athletic, charming $1M banking executive. We’ve been together for 21 years; married for 19. Neither of us have baggage of previous long term relationships.[/quote] Most of the guys I knew in undergrad wanted to pay around. Not sure you heard the story from the girls perspective.[/quote]
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