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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In reference to the other thread where it was concluded that the good guys with the potential to make good money are always paired up very early in life- in college or before. This makes me feel major FOMO because in high school and college, I had 0 idea what a “marriage material” guy was and how to identify them. But I had a roomate, I recall, who had been dating her engineer bf since hs. They were monogamous throughout college and he went to an Ivy League across the country. They already had it all mapped out. What jobs they were going to do; how many kids they would have.

How did she know so early what’s a good guy? And how to keep him?

I was so clueless and only now in my thirties am remembering the things she said about marriage and husbands.

Who teaches these girls? How they know? What do they know? [/quote]

[b]Nobody teaches anything. They just got lucky.[/quote][/b]

My mom specifically pointed out and explained all of the bad marriages in our orbit, starting in middle school. I married a fantastic guy.[/quote]

Umm… yeah. The posters of Dcum aren’t known for their relaxed attitudes about anything. Seems unlikely they didn’t hear from their Mothers early and often  what sort of man is a decent earner with husband potential. [/quote]

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