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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]don't go for looks; go for the slightly nerdy guys who will treat you like a queen and who aren't into partying.

My sister's goal was to marry an engineer, which she did at 23.[/quote]

Op here. Well I wasted my time on the social good looking frat boys. :([/quote]

Yeah. You have to avoid the bros. A smart, nice, hardworking guy is better. [/quote]
The “nice” guys aren’t always what they seem either. [/quote]

+1. I hate this fallacy. So many nerds are just as misogynistic and entitled as the “frat bros”. I’m a female engineer and these clueless commenters clearly have little experience to make such sweeping and inaccurate generalizations.

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+100!

I never understood that advice, either.  Marry an unattractive, socially awkward nerd who's to check the marriage box and then resent him for the remainder of the marriage as he slips into the same misogyny the advice-givers claimed to have avoided. [/quote]
? you must've married a dud.  My DH engineer is not misogynistic. You need to find someone who doesn't mind cooking and cleaning, and who values and respects your input. [/quote]

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