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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ladies, you have agency over your own lives.  No "man" is responsible for your happiness or failure to meet a goal.  For every woman like this, theres also some man complaining how his wife "held him back" in some way.  Nobody cares about the whining, from men or women.  Your life is yours.  Picked a bad man....own it.  Men, picked a bad woman....you own your choices. Rearrange the genders above however you like to suit your situation.  
All you're gonna get is a "I'm so sorry. that's terrible, how sad" and then people move on.  
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It's the lying that is so horrible. The fact that people lie to someone so intimate with them. These issues are considered nonmarriages in the church for a reason.[/quote]

It's tragic and horrible that only men lie to women, and women never lie to men.[/quote]

I believe there was a comment earlier about how this is done in the reverse as well. But the topic is specifically about men lying.[/quote]

If he tells you the truth and then later changes his mind because his feelings have changed, was he lying?

When women tell you before you get married how often they want to have sex, and then that frequency diminishes after marriage because their feelings have changed, were they lying?
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Yes. It is. You should not be making commitments you can't even try to keep. I mean it's one thing if something traumatic happens to you and you can't take care of a child or you can't have kids or can't have sex as in your example, but even then you should have some way of keeping that spirit and committment alive. We are talking about people who deliberately misleed their spouse though and there are many people like that or who say they are all in but they are lying to themselves and to their spouse.[/quote]

I don't think there are many people like that at all - especially men who lie about wanting to have children. For one thing, [b]having children is literally the only reason to get married at all from a man's point of view.[/b] Otherwise why not just cohabit without marrying? Another common reason for men to get married is because she gave him an ultimatum to get married and he caved in. In that scenario, did she say "oh by the way I also demand you make me pregnant soon" or was that just her hidden agenda? Probably not. So she was not fully honest with him. If she reveals her hidden baby agenda after she browbeats him into doing something he wouldn't otherwise do, then really it's hard to blame him for dragging his feet about going along with it.
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Your post is nonsense. I know far too many men who got married after divorce just because they couldn't stand the idea of being alone. Divorced men marry much quicker than divorced women because of this. Also your comment about women forcing men to marry is also garbage.[/quote]

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