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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is not a victim, but all the fault is with the married person looking to step out and betray their spouse.

The betrayed spouse needs to let go of the anger if they decide to stay with the cheating spouse. [b]I know several women that obsess over the OW and hate her, but have forgiven their husbands[/b].[/quote]

[b]That's how they manage that trick -- they hate the OW instead. It's the only way.[/b]

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Conversely, the OW often obsesses about the wife, as well. Competition over limited resources, the actual man is secondary.[/quote]

And wishes her harm, stalks her on the Internet …all while the wife has zero idea she even exists. She’s in a competition with a wife that doesn’t even know she’s in one and sadly they still can’t get them to leave the wife 98% of the time…when he only sees her at her absolute best in a fantasy world for an hour at a time.[/quote]

OH MY GOD you are so tiresome.  For the millionth time:  Your H's one experience is not representative of all affairs.  Every time you post this stuff, you just remind us what a loser YOUR husband was.[/quote]

+1 Do these bizarre posters not realize that their husbands are describing them in less than flattering terms to the OW? Do they really think their DH is telling the OW how awesome their DW is? NO. THEY ARE NOT. They are telling their AP how shrew-like, horrible and unattractive their wives are, thus justifying their affair. Why in the world would the OW be obsessed with them? They think the wives are the losers their DH described them to be. Wake up. Stop kidding yourselves.[/quote]

Nope. Not all men do that.  Particularly narcissists because it would reflect badly on them.  They both often never talk of their spouses. Some men have a code where they will never say anything bad and get angry if the ow says anything negative about the wife.  What you describe is a stereotype.  Many men in happy marriages cheat in no string situations.  Being jealous of the woman he sleeps next to every night, celebrates holidays and goes on exotic trips with is normal.  That often want her lifestyle.  [/quote]
"Some men have a code..." -- lady, you've already told us all these details about your (ex?) husband's affair. [/quote]

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