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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was OW, I didn't feel like I was harming the DW because I had no intention of breaking up her family.  And when you think about it, I gotta give Sumner credit -- she could've dimed him out ages ago, but she didn't.  She kept her mouth shut, she was discreet, no harm came to Behati.  It wasn't until Sumner's friend tried to sell the story that Sumner herself came forward.

But honestly though, if Behati had an expectation of monogamy, she's a fool.  [/quote]

Well you were.  In what f@cking world do you live in that you think f@cking another woman’s husband isn’t going to harm her…and ultimately her children when the affair us discovered.

You are a self-centered POS.[/quote]

Not PP but you should read statistics on this. Most affairs are never discovered. The ones that are are have a more than 80% chance of staying married. People in happy marriages don’t cheat. There are some scumbags who will but usually, an affair is a symptom of a marriage in decline or already dead. A good marriage will survive an affair…a weak one will not…and that means the affair was not the main issue[/quote]

In so many cases it’s mental issues and trauma on the part of the cheater. Period.  It’s not the marriage or anything their did they made them cheat.  And, the cheater will often begin to become very critical of everything at home.  What you are missing is all the trauma and horror that occurs, even in the “good” marriages that end up making it.  It’s never the same.  It takes a long, long time to get even close to trust again.  Just stupid to ever do that and it’s an arrogant person that lives with the “what they don’t know can’t hurt them”. That secret alone is eroding the marriage and it’s intimacy.[/quote]

My exH cheated on all his wives. I was the third one [/quote]

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