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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The hostess is both a jerk and unwell. AT MOST this “infraction” would warrant an offhand comment to one’s spouse to which the spouse would say “oh”. To be so hyper focused on the state of potential dirtiness on the floor that she told a third person tells me that they are literally certifiable. The good news OP is that now you don’t need to waste time trying to be friends with her. [/quote]

Why did you say "literally" certifiable? You shot yourself in the foot.[/quote]

being so concerned about the potential for dirt and germs that she made a thing of it would qualify for a DSM-5 diagnosis for sure. [/quote]

or, alternately, "gee I asked someone to do this thing we customarily do, and then they openly didn't do it."

You're making it about germs. Maybe she was making it about the friend ignoring that (in the moment, innocent intentioned or not)[/quote]

Yes, I posted about this upthread. I got so sick of my "friends" deliberately choosing to disrespect my wishes. WTH.[/quote]

She FORGOT. We do not wear shoes on the house. If I had a friend over, and they put their shoes on to leave, and THE SPRINKLER WAS ON, and the person just was on autopilot and walked 20 feet to the other exit…NBD.

That’s not disrespecting your wishes. If it was so important to OP’s “friend”, she should have given her a reminder to take off her shoes. Or, you know, just turned off the sprinkler. Or just steam mopped the floor OP walked over.

There is no right option that includes talking smack about the OP.[/quote]

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