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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He doesn't yell or swear,.consider yourself lucky and leave him be! He's allowed to have his feelings.

Most dads are crap parents. I see it all the time. [/quote]

Yeah, but the problem is that he’s also a crap partner. He’s miserable to be around. He whines all the time. Yeah, raising little kids is hard. But it doesn’t get easier with nonstop complaining. [/quote]

I can see that. It's all hard AF. I've begun to resent all the work and noise and interruptions, too. I complain about it less than H, but if he is yelling and angry at the kids it actually makes me more likely to yell and be angry too. I try to give him lots of time off to golf or whatever, but sometimes he just chooses to sit around and be miserable.

[b]I'm just saying it's a common problem.[/b] [/quote]

In your house or are you generalizing? This is not a common problem in general. [/quote]

Are you kidding? A group of moms voted a Governor in just because they hated seeing their children 24/7 for a year or more.

If anything, I think the pandemic forced a lot of parents to come to a public recognition that they only enjoy parenting if it’s a 2 hour or less daily commitment.

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWawMg-alKs[/youtube][/quote]

+1,000,000[/quote]

It's almost unfathomable how many people keep missing the point of the pandemic and childcare.  It's not that most parents don't want to be around their kids, it's that we don't want to be forced to work AND watch our kids AND oversee their "education" simultaneously, all while Sanctimonious Sarah over here tells us we should "enjoy these moments."

I still think this DH is a glassbowl.[/quote]

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