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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Never. Why would you tell your kids this?  Move on. If one of you didn’t cheat you’d still end up divorced. It was a symptom.

My wife cheated and moved out 7 years ago. I can’t even imagine telling my kids. I love them too much. Get over yourself. Move on. Take a class. Focus on building a nice life. [/quote]

No way. There are men out there telling other men they wish they could kill their wives - I've seen this publicly on facebook myself - (or they are actually doing this  in which case you'll see them on the news with a report of a murder) because they have to pay child support or their wife had an affair. Telling your kids dad or mom had an affair and doesn't love me the same way they used to is healthy and true and much better than harboring resentment for years. Then they know and everyone can move on. Cheating is a symptom of the way someone deals with a relationship. It isn't the effect of someone else's behavior on them. Someone else's behavior may trigger feelings in another person but they always have other options. Again and I don't know why this keeps having to be repeated, but unless you are defending yourself against someone then your actions are your own. There are very very few instances where cheating is somehow protecting the person actually cheating from abuse by another.[/quote]

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