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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, ladies but men have a lot easier of a time rebounding after divorce than you do. [/quote]

This is just not true. It is not 1965. It is far easier for women [/quote]

As a divorced man I have to admit this is true. Dating is mostly online these days. And for every 10 likes I get, women will get like 200. And there are a lot of good single men out there for decent divorced women. But once a guy is 50 or so, it’s really tough to find women, exception is only with very rare rich and fit guys.  It’s so much easier for women. [/quote]

As a 39 year old divorced woman, I disagree that there are a lot of good single men out there. Maybe single men in their 30s who haven't been married. But divorced men in their 40s? Not a lot AT ALL. [/quote]

Are not a lot of divorced men in their 40s but there are a lot of never married men in their 40s and never married men in their 30s. I haven’t looked at 50s. 44. I date  men in their 30s. There are plenty. There are almost no men who are divorced in their 40s but that’s not my target audience even though that is who I am. If you are looking for the exact same demographic as you then yeah you’re not gonna find a lot of men but if you’re willing to date men who’s never been married and who are younger, you’re fine.[/quote]

But what would they give me? I already thought my husband was a dud. Why would I want a 30 year old who never had kids other than sex? I just see immaturity when I look at these types of people. And single men as well. They are either too egotistical or too incompetent if they are single into their 40's. At least a divorced man put in some effort into a relationship during the main growth years of his life.[/quote]

Who said 30? You know there are men 36-39 who have never been married, right? It is not that common. I think you are being way to judgmental. Prepare to be single. Not all men are immature. Your statement that a divorced man put in some effort is completely wrong. I was married. My ex and I had literally no relationship. At all. For a miserable decade. No dates, no gifts, no talking, no dinners, nothing. But we were "married." It was a freaking performance. I have had more maturity from a 35-year-old who has never been married and has no kids. Honestly, I have been on several dates recently with a 31-year-old who says he is looking for a real life partner and does not want kids because he helps his siblings raise theirs. I thought he was too young. Well, I am glad I have been on several dates with him. He is more mature than the last 41-year-old I dated. The few divorced 40s guys I have met are a wreck...they are divorced for a reason. Open your mind.[/quote]

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