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[quote=Anonymous]The more I think about this, all you can do is support your BIL. But if he makes plenty of money, it isn’t clear to me what you would actually do other than encourage him. It doesn’t sound like he needs you to pay for healthy meals, etc. I do think you need to take a step back and realize there is a lot more toxicity here than you probably even realize. Your SIL likely has sensory and mental health issues. And your BIL sounds like he totally enabled her sitting around doing nothing. And he didn’t care enough to even try to model health behavior for his kid. So tell your BIL that you are proud of him for making changes. But realize the likelihood of him making any sort of meaningful change is about 1%. I would not get too invested in this.[/quote]
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