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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I say this with kindness and without judgment: You need to put out before your husband starts looking elsewhere.

Find a babysitter to watch the kids and take an evening for yourselves each week. If you’re still uneasy with your body for whatever reason tell him that. Think of it as a time to perfect your bj skills. Men just operate differently than women it’s normal but you have to compromise. At this point it’s been a year with very little goodies I can understand his frustration. [/quote]

She is THREE MONTHS past having twins and is “putting out” once a week! You’re insane, or a dude who feels like it’s his responsibility to get every other dude laid. [/quote]

You're living in fantasy land. Soon it'll be but the twins need this... or I'm tired... and before you know it, hubby is looking elsewhere. It's just the way it goes. It's the reality of the thing. It just is. Either she musters up the umph to do it, or she'll be having serious marital issues in the next 3-6 months, I guarantee.[/quote]
Pretty much this.

If you ignore your marriage, eventually it will go away.[/quote]

And? After it goes away, the wife, like most divorced women, will probably say she doesn't feel like meeting anyone else and will live out the rest of her life in peace, while the husband ties himself into knots trying to get sex from someone else. I know who I'd rather be.

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Lies. She'll be back on DCUM asking with dating apps are the app, tips on hooking up with a random bar dude in Germany, or asking how long she should wait before her new boyfriend that she just met two months ago meets the twins.

Clearly you're new here.[/quote]

Don’t forget the I’m newly divorced in my 40s what mini skirt should I wear on my blind date? Or my teenagers want to live with their father and his new wife, should I just run away to Canada? Followed by my sister is still friends with my ex husband-should I be mad?

It’s like a Jerry Springer episode ‘round here.[/quote]

You do know that like 90% of posts here are trolls, right? [/quote]

Doubt it's 90%. It's just that whenever someone posts something that the majority of people here can't relate to the first thing they do is yell TROLL!! It's happened to me on a thread I posted and I'm sure countless others. There's nothing worse than sharing your story and looking for engaging feedback only to be called a troll. It's dumb and immature.[/quote]

A “mid-40s woman” asking what miniskirt to wear on a blind date or talking about running away to Canada is very obviously a troll. I’m not sure why the PP thinks that is an accurate depiction of what mid-40s women post online. If they ever were posted here and not just hyperbole by PP to prove a point (“women suck and here’s a hypothetical situation proving why!”) they are very obviously troll posts. [/quote]

Again, doubt it. I'm in my late-40s and have [b]a group chat of eight girlfriends[/b] who are all my age or a couple years older, more than half of us are divorced and we discuss clothing for dates or events quite frequently and yes, sometimes that includes miniskirts. So again, just because you can relate doesn't mean it's not real. [/quote]

Yea, a group chat with friends.

Real women aren't posting on DCUM asking for miniskirt advice.[/quote]

They would if they don't have friends. Geesh!! Are you Lord of What Real Women do? Chill out.[/quote]

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