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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]UPDATE

So, I responded to the group text where my cousin ordered all the bridesmaids to buy a second dress. I answered that since the first dress was non refundable and a second dress wasn’t in my budget, I‘m stepping down as MOH to allow one of the bridesmaids to take my place and all the dresses to coordinate. I explained that I’m fine with not being MOH because we’ll always be family and I just want to make this wedding planning as easy as possible on my cousin.

My cousin didn’t respond. In all, she was radio silent for a week after the call in which she chewed me out over the phone. She then texted me yesterday to tell me she had a time slot that day in a two hour range between yoga to talk to me and told me to send her a time in that range that works. I found that incredibly entitled and arrogant, plus I didn’t want to sign up for being chewed out again. I told her that I felt bruised from our last call and that she should text me what she wants to say.

This morning, she sent me an 8 minute voice note. I don’t know exactly what she said in the note because I have small kids and a life. I’m not listening to an 8 minute voice note on memorial day. She also sent me texts “correcting” me on what she seems to believe are inaccuracies.

I’m so over this woman that I responded that I think it’s entitled of her to expect me to listen to an eight minute voice note and that I’m done with this bridesmaid drama. I told her to let me know if she still wants my family to attend her wedding and that was that. She texted a bunch of other stuff suggesting
that something must be going on with me for me to have a problem with her approach and blah blah blah. I’m not responding. Ladies and gentlemen, lesson learned on holding boundaries.[/quote]

Well OP, as my mom would say - you done good![/quote]

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