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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. I heard of an older man who cheated knowing full well he would never leave his wife-- she made the money and she was a firm believer in wedding vows and wouldn't even let him go if it came down to it. So, he knew what he could get away with. They've been married for more than 25 years and she's full aware her husband is a cad but again, she's determined to stay married to him. So, why do men cheat? Because they know their wives and how much crap they'll take. As long as the wife isn't willing to toss him out and find someone new, as long as she's too afraid of the stigma of being unmarried (not that there is a stigma, really, it's all in her head), as long as she actually thinks losing the jerk is worse than death, men will cheat. [/quote] Get real. She doesn’t want to pay him alimony and child support, just like a man when a SAHM cheats.[/quote] This is why the cheating partner should not receive alimony. It puts the other spouse at risk and therefore negates the need to support the spouse.[/quote] I feel like this would also reduce the amount of arguments men make about women abusing them for money in a divorce. We could finally see also how often cheating plays a role in a relationship dying. Cheating due to no sex after a period of years could also be part of this negotiation. Monogamous sex and raising children in a monogamous household is pretty much the main reason for marriage.[/quote]
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