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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I apologize to OP. Dad Poster #3, thanks for the additional detail about how you addressed this with your daughter. Cool that you talked about how the other little girl might have felt. I agree with you and the PP that you might have handled things differently at the other little girl's party. Did you think how the other little girl felt to have to be a good hostess to your daughter? To be told that she had to be nice and polite no matter what your daughter had said to her? Do you think she told her parents what had happened? Did you discuss this with your daughter too? Sometimes, I don't think of the right thing to say in the moment and certainly, hindsight is 20/20, esp on this board. But it's never too late ... [/quote] I'm not sure it matters but you have the sequence of events wrong. The other girl's birthday party was Saturday. My dd's birthday party was Sunday. All the girls were asked to not talk about it at school. On Monday, one of the girls marched straight up to the Saturday birthday girl and described everything that happened at dd's party on Sunday. Then Saturday b-day girl confronted my DD, and that's when, instead of saying "sorry, it was a locked in small guest list" dd replied something about she didn't invite her b/c she talks about poop and farts all the time. [/quote]
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