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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom passed away a few years ago. Seeing how the DH spoke to the mom made me especially sad. If my mom was still around I know my DH would be kind to her, even though she could be a lot!

OP, you deserve better. [/quote]

OP here.  It does make me very sad.  I wish DH could accept my mom's apology and be a little nicer and forgiving.  He says maybe I should find someone else who is willing to put up with being controlled by my parents.  I feel like it is possible to set boundaries, accept apologies when they are broken, and be kind.[/quote]

OP, your husband is scary and the biggest drama king.  I don't see anything wrong with your mom offering to wash dishes or being a little pushy to do it her way.  Sorry, but moms are sometimes like that.  I have friends who come to my house and insist on doing dishes because they feel guilty making our kitchen a mess.  Most of the time, I would re-wash what they wash but it's really not a big deal to me.  They were trying to be nice, not control me or how I do my dishes or run my life.

I cringed reading about your husband.  He sounds manipulative and using verbiage to manipulate you.  I also read the two links you sent.  Your husband has issues, and so do you for accepting his controlling behavior.  I'd divorce his ass in a minute.  Seems like you met the devil.[/quote]

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