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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I font get why taking care of your wife or husband is looked upon, why it has to be 50/50? Some people are nurturer by nature, they'll do more doesn't matter what their gender is, others are more ambitious, they'll do less regardless of their gender.[/quote] Three words: historical context matters. It would be one thing if it was all individual choice for eons, but it's not. Women were systematically prohibited from earning money, owning property, and voting in order to keep them doing the work of caretaking for free. Until men have been in that position for a comparable length of time, we should not talk about "nature." If I were a man earning all the money, I would wonder what my wife would do for me if she didn't need me for that and could do whatever she wanted. [/quote]
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