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[quote=Anonymous]Does he miss important business meetings? Multiple times a year? I suspect not. Whatever system is using for them (like putting the commitment on his calendar), he has to do for the picking up his children. If he gets out of it, he is probably achieving his subconscious goal. It is very sad that the natural consequences of this irresponsibility are not enough for him, but since they are not, you need to increase the "cost" of this behavior. You need to both agree on a consequence that he DOES care about: money, no golf, all household chores for a week. He has to have skin in the game (not just your aggravation). I would even ask for therapy around this, because a good parent would be dependable, not selfish. [/quote]
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