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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t know what he’s up to or what this means, OP, but I agree that it’s weird behavior on his part. I will say that a man once did this to me. He invited me over to his house, cooked dinner, and played songs on his guitar, and then told me he had decided to date exclusively the other person who he had been dating casually. It was mortifying, because after dinner and the guitar I definitely thought that was going in another direction. But I have no idea if he was just misguided or a jerk or what. So I don’t know what to think about what your guy is up to.[/quote]

Oh my. Narcissist sublime.[/quote]

yeah, this is mortifying just to read, amazing[/quote]

This story strikes me as this person being a narcissist, and OP's guy sounds like one too. He wants to see if the other women will start crying and beg him to reconsider.[/quote]

He’s the chosen one! All these women want him! He’s got to have at least 10 days of drama and breaking the hearts of his devotees, in person no less, to get those sweet sweet ego boosts, before he can be only op’s lover.

If he decided to ghost these women it would be socially crappy, but it happens all the time. He likes the thrill of manipulation, the dates where he gets to break it to the other women he’s “taken,” he probably wants to see what better offer he gets. He’s the exhausting one! [/quote]

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