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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: we talked this morning and I told him I needed to take a step back; I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with him. 
To be honest, my guy is telling me something is off here. [/quote]

*gut not guy [/quote]

OP: to elaborate, he told me he was only seeing each of them for 6 weeks and was not sleeping with either one. So why the need to have them get dressed up for a “coffee dare” and break up in person? I get the feeling it’s more about his ego- he wants to see how they’ll react.[/quote]

So let's go back to when you had been seeing him for 6 weeks.had possibly planned another date with him you would have been totally fine with him just texting you and saying oopsies gonna be exclusive with someone now laters[/quote]

OP: not a text, but a kind, caring phone call- absolutely! I would not have wanted to meet in person. [/quote]

It's not about what you would want or what I would want (and these other people may not want a face to face meeting). It's about your BF having the autonomy to decide what he wants to do. He may not even need to meet with the other people face to face, maybe he wants to sit on a rock and medidate about his impending relationship. [/quote]

OP also has the autonomy to decide that this won’t work for her. Why does she have to accept a situation  that makes her uncomfortable? [/quote]

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