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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this whole thread discussion of whether or not you should morally take your kids overseas is irrelevant, as some folks have tried to say.  You need to consult a divorce lawyer before you pursue your job hunt any further.

If your DH does not agree to the kids going, it doesn’t matter what he has contributed as father and husband, or how connected he is as a father.  He will have 50% custody and if he doesn’t want them leaving the neighborhood you live in much less the country, they aren’t going anywhere.  The courts would not allow it if both parents don’t agree to the move.

Your only choice would be to convince him somehow to allow them to go.  If he doesn’t, you’re going to have to live here and find a job here.  Full stop.[/quote]

From her post, he does the after school care and activities so he cannot be as bad of a dad as she makes him out ot be.[/quote]

It doesn’t matter.  Unless he is an imprisoned child-murdering schitzophrenic, he will get partial custody and that means they can’t go anywhere without both parents’ approval.  Otherwise the courts won’t allow it. [/quote]

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