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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why is it up to you to find the compromise? I would tell grandparents that you came up with the original plan, like it, and think you should stick to it. If they change up the plans, that is not on you. You can then do what you need to do to (hotel overnight) for your own family.[/quote] I didn’t come up with the original plan. It was a plan that everyone contributed to. [b]To be honest I don’t know how solving it became my job[/b]. [/quote] Because you are viewed as disrupting tradition. Your family is in the way of the way things are done in DH’s family. The grandparents see it that way as well or they wouldn’t be taking the passive aggressive stance of asking you to find the compromise. Everyone in the family, but you, thinks your husband can suck up the one day of noise. [/quote]
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