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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not ok with the person I believe I am in a monogamous sexual relationship with starting to sleep with another person or people without my knowledge. I have a right to control how much risk I want to expose myself to sexually, and no intelligent person would assume that someone who cares more about his own sexual gratification than the health and welfare of his spouse should be trusted to make good decisions. Add to that the fact that the affair partner also has questionable morals, and seriously.... do the two cheaters really believe that they only lie to their respective spouses, never each other? Please. I say this as a divorced female who caught her husband cheating after going in to the gyn for treatment of what I assumed was a terrible yeast infection, only to learn it was chlamydia. I don't know if the ex got it from his secretary or if there were others, but yeah. Also.... clearly we weren't in a sexless marriage since he gave me the STD he picked up from who knows where. [/quote] Oh god. So sorry. But, yeah, two cheaters lie to everyone, each other included. And, those risk taking types engage in risk taking behavior. Many are also sex addicts and non-discriminating. Or, their spouse is off cheating and now they caught that, gave it to their AP who now gave it to their spouse. I really have ZERO tolerance for anyone that does this to a partner who believes they are in a monogamous relationship. It really is criminal behavior in my eyes, fraud.[/quote]
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