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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SAHD here. I am wondering how/why I got myself into this scenario. I love my kids to death but my wife and I are more like roommates. We only talk about the kids, we NEVER have sex. I look around and it seems that everyone else is living the perfect life. I just want to feel close to someone again. [/quote]

You could be my husband, except we both work. He finally talked to me about it. We are in marriage counseling. Please talk to your wife - I wish my husband had done it sooner. In our case by the time I finally started in my own way to initiate sex it was too late for him, a lot of damage had been done, and now we are hoping to untangle our mess. Don't wait any longer - tell your wife![/quote]

I know you are right but as with everything, it's way more complicated than it should be. It's been like this for a couple of years now and I feel like I missed my window to bring it up in earnest. I have brought it up casually in the past to no avail.  She has been going through some emotional and physical difficulties over the past year so I haven't wanted to "pile on". We are extremely fortunate and have two healthy and happy kids so I feel like a real jerk to complain about intimacy. [/quote]

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