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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is everyone excoriating OP?  The emotional/kissing affair ended before it went too far, it happened over time with someone he knew, he wasn't out looking for other women, he confessed, it's over.  At least he didn't sleep with the lady and then leave his wife and children for a homewrecker.  Then you all would crucify him.  [/quote]

(1) She’s married.  (2). She’s married with a kid. (3) She told him not to text her at certain times and he didn’t listen.  (4). His actions caused a blow up that harmed the woman. (5) The blow up he caused also harmed his wife.  (6) On top of all that, he has stopped functioning at home (and possibly work, too?). (7) He’s fantasizing about contacting her again, after she’s expressly said No contact. (8) If he contacts the woman he could be slapped with a restraining order, which would further harm himself and his family.

But yeah, he wasn’t out looking for additional other women, so it’s all good.  [/quote]

You left out the part about her being married to his friend.[/quote]

True.  And all the 24/7 texting took time away from their respective family obligations and being “present” for their families.  So, that’s at least 10 good reasons to excoriate OP.  [/quote]

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