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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is everyone excoriating OP?  The emotional/kissing affair ended before it went too far, it happened over time with someone he knew, he wasn't out looking for other women, he confessed, it's over.  At least he didn't sleep with the lady and then leave his wife and children for a homewrecker.  Then you all would crucify him.  [/quote]

OP says he wanted more, he would have done more if it was possible.
The only reason he confessed is because he was caught.
The only reason he was caught was because he was stupid and selfish.
Yeah, you can think of it as no damage was done, but that’s a narrow way of seeing it that I doubt anyone with a shred of emotional intelligence looking at this would agree with. Even if he did care about his AP as he claims he treated her very disrespectfully. As for his wife — I don’t see how she could still respect him as a man after looking at this whole situation. [/quote]

He also has nothing to say about why he wanted this and why he handled it as he did. It’s less important what happened than how he understands it (or doesn’t) because that’s what his wife is left with in the end.[/quote]

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