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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here - but I think it is ok for OP to feel hurt. Just maybe consider this other lady has a ton of "groups" she socializes with, and just could only fit in 12 or whatever the number was. Maybe it didn't even occur to her to invite you. Invest energy into other friendships for sure but do not confront or get too upset about this. [/quote] Oh, I'm sure the birthday gal knew exactly what she was doing. Nobody is that dense. She deliberately didn't put OP on the list, and maybe for good reason, but there will always be fall out to decisions like these. Children learn these tactics at a very young age and they try to bludgeon their class mates with the "I'm not inviting you to my birthday party" in order to get their way or prove a point. I would extract myself from this group or only see the others when birthday lady wasn't around. This is no longer a group of 5 couples, if it ever was.[/quote]
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