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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has been a fun read! I’d love to see all the man haters meet and then be a fly on the wall and just listen in. The stories! The misery! Please keep in mind that for those of you who got divorced or are in a crappy marriage….YOU MARRIED THE LOSER! WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOUR DECISION MAKING?[/quote]

Good question! No answers so far! [/quote]

Classic male DARVO response. 
Man does bad thing. Blame his mother for raising him. Blame his wife for marrying him. [/quote]

Classic female behavior. Complain and blame, complain and blame. [/quote]

I don’t have anything to complain about. 
But I do find it telling that when a woman complains about an awful husband, the male reaction on here is “you married the loser!” 
Do you say that in cases where a man beats his wife? “Well, she was stupid to marry him”. Men not being awful never seems to be an option, but it’s women’s responsibility to know in advance that he might turn into a monster. Very “boys will be boys”. 
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I think it is mostly women who say "you married the loser!" And I think a lot of people don't really believe that the complainer is without fault in the dysfunctional relationship. it's always weird to read these screeds against how horrible some husband, or ex-husband, is, and how the poster is this victim. Like didn't you date and then choose to marry this person? Is the husband really that bad? Or do you just have a bad relationship, in which you play a role?[/quote]

Emotional abusers do not show their true colors until they have you trapped. Everything comes out after marriage. You can’t use this logic in those situations.[/quote]

Yes. In a former career I sold home services and we always met with the DH and DW. Man …so many of the women were verbally and emotionally abusive to their DH. It was so uncomfortable to be in the same room. [/quote]

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