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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes it's an exit affair and he wants out of the marriage. Google it, it's a thing. [/quote]

Not as typical for men, but very common for married women in affairs.  65% unhappily married women in affairs looking for it as an exit, compared to only 20% of men, and only 2% actually marry the AP.

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+1.

I haven't read all 10 pages of this thread, but seriously how is this even a question. Most men have a strong desire to have sex.

Sometimes they just want to be with variety of women.
Sometimes they want to be with a woman who is hotter/younger than their wife
Sometimes they want to feel wanted/desired
Sometimes they have a sex addiction
Sometimes they are looking for different/wilder/kinkier sex than they have at home
Sometimes they enjoy the thrill of getting one over their wife
Sometimes they are approached or see an opportunity and they think that they won't get caught so it will be OK

Most of the time, they are cheating to get it in because they can, not some grand scheme to eventually divorce and marry the AP. 
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You forgot: Sometimes they hate women and enjoy the thrill of duping a woman into thinking he cares so that she will relent and have sex with him with the belief they have a sincere relationship, aka rape by fraud.  [/quote]

That is not rape.  That happens in real life every day in normal boyfriend-girlfriend relationships.  If the sex was consensual, and often times these women--particularly the Ashley Madison ones--advertise they are looking for a sexual partner.  If he leads her on, often she is leading him on by claiming she is just looking for a no strings arrangement and then changing the script the longer she screws him.

Men and women lie and lead one another on all of the time, single or not.  How many single women dating single men do you know stayed in a relationship thinking it was going to go to the alter and he kept moving the goal posts?

If the guy lied and said he was never married, even that is not rape.  It was just a lie.  She still consented to having sex.

This is why we teach our daughters to not sleep with married men, to not sleep with someone until you know someone very well, etc.

Yes there are married men AND women that are in it for the thrill of getting another person to say "I love you" and get a masochistic thrill from wielding that power, a huge ego boost and they will say it back to keep the sex coming.

It is well known that a man rarely leaves his wife for an affair partner.  Anyone getting into a relationship with a married man knows that, they just think they are different.[/quote]

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