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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my bf told me I wasn't welcome on a trip with someone who is just a female friend and it's just my bf and his female friend and it's to a romantic place like you mentioned all kind of red flags are waving everywhere. If a friend IRL came and told me this was her scenario I would tell her to quit being so niave and open her eyes and see what's going on and to run fast because clearly there is something deeper there. Clearly platonic opposite sex friends don't take solo trips to a romantic spot and then tell their SO they can't go WTAF[/quote]

And the reasoning that plans shouldn't change is because they booked the trip before  the guy friend was dating and he was only dating her a few months and they were long distance.

In 2018 people decided the GF was totally out of line for  being WTF?

For me the telling thing was that OP insisted there was no possible way for her to have fun unless it was just her and guy friend. And that she was"resentful" of any plans changing, not just annoyed, but resentful.  Also telling that the only and acceptable right choice according to OP was her guy bestie going solo on the trip with her like him deciding to stay home and she replaces him with another friend or  just her traveling alone were just not even options.  But in 2018 people were totally buying her BS.

And the guy friend who OP admitted previously had a crush on her probably thought OP pouting about any change in plans means she really did like him.

ANd DCUMERs like to act like female friends don;t pull this possesive shit.[/quote]

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