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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ yeah.  My husband and I met at 26/25.  We are 51/50.  We have been through everything together.  I know all of his family members, childhood friends, college friends.  We have lived abroad, bared our souls, had kids, lost a parent, been through happy and sad and new jobs and bought houses, lost friends, gained friends, watched our kids take their first breath, watched kids’ triumphs and disappointments.

It would be very hard for anyone to claim they knew us better and understood each on a deeper level, that’s limerence talking pp.  You were in affair which is not real. FFS.  It’s why only 2% of those things make it.[/quote]

I have been through all those things too with my spouse and so has he. My husband is no slouch intellectually or emotionally and has a really noble character in many ways. But this person's attunement, depth, honestly and relatedness are categorically different and I am different with him. He is not all kindness or perfection and there are ample flaws and complexity there. But he brings out my most loving and generous qualities. Again, reasons we cannot see or speak to each other. [/quote]

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