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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am turned off by women’s epic travel stories. Reading profiles from women that post all their pictures from Tibet, Rome, on safari etc and blather on and on about passport stamps is annoying and sets an unrealistic expectation for others. Like it’s all you talk about, all your interested in and it’s a sneak peak into the future relationship. People who haven’t been to those exotic locales can’t relate. [/quote]

It's not even not being to those places; everyone can buy a cheap ticket and go anywhere.  It's making it your entire personality that's the issue, which sounds like a defense mechanism against actually having one.[/quote]

It's actually about your low self-esteem and that you won't easily be able to impress a woman like OP. [/quote]

Maybe you are right, but I'm a woman and I can't stand all the travel talk that people get into.

Frankly, I think if you buy into travel and exotic destination porn, [b]you are selfishly destroying the environment both through you own air travel and by visiting some place that is probably pretty special[/b] on our earth.  The earth is not here as our plaything.  We need to respect and protect it.  If you think you are exempt, you are wrong. Watch travel tv or explore the wildlife in your own area first.

So sure, maybe it is low self-esteem I totally own that I have it, but i'm not impressed by that level of selfishness.[b] I think it is an adrenaline rush and it makes you feel important by visiting these places.[/b]

I'm married though and not out looking for a man, but just want to say that not everyone holds the same values and Op and PP can both find their people.  I do judge you for your travel.  I would also ohhhh and ahhh to your face when you describe it so you will never know what I really think because I'm just being nice. [/quote]

PP, i'm totally coming around to this belief as well. I used to travel a lot, but the combination of Covid (forced stop making me realize that it's not necessary) and the climate emergency puts it all in a different light. so much of travel just seems like more consumption.[/quote]

Your posts are highly amusing because you both fail to realize you are exactly what you accuse OP of.[/quote]

NP. Who cares? What’s wrong with what they said? Excessive travelers like OP are destroying the environment and need to be stopped. Why are you so defensive? Are you also one of those crazy budget travelers who’s been to a ton of places, destroying the habitat in the process?[/quote]

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